I have had 2 kids and it shows. I need something to get me jump started. I never understood the fat person's plight until I became one. I have been skinny all my life like a size 4 or 6 now I am knocking on the door of a 16. I am lazy b/c I am fat and I am fat b/c I am lazy. Its a vicious cycle. I need some real help and not ugly answres by people who don't undertsand b/c they have never had a problem with their weight. Its easy to say stop eating so much but no so easy to do. Thanks so much in advance.

I've had great success with Hoodia, which is non-prescription.
Here's a page I found that mentions a special Hoodia formulation for women, with an offer for a free trial -http://promo-code.org/promo/hoodia-xpf/
I hope this helps!