So I want to lose about 70lbs for may, and I dont want that icky flabby skin. Is that a realistic goal?
Also, can anyone tell me a plan for exercise & foods that will help. Is there any free site besides sparkspeople that can help with weight?

sparkpeople.com
I recommend checking it out. You can plan your eating it's very easy. Completely free.

Weight Watchers

I want to lose about 30 pounds to. i can tell you your goal is very realistic if you stick with it and believe in yourself. The cabbage soup diet is a one week diet and works very well. you can research it on google. you lose up to 12 punds in one week. please please please take a look at it. its great

www.thedailyplate.com

do weightwatchers im on it and it works great, but make sure you excersise at least 3 times a week. and when you loose the weight reward your self with something great liek a book or a new hair do buy new clothes or what ever you like