www.theweighwewere.com
You have to register (free). There are basically 2 sections, the first is about people who already lost weight and the second is for people who are trying to lose. Hope it helps.

None of them, because like religion, everyone has their own views and their own ways to battle that bulge.... and most of the time, it just doesn't work because 98% of people who are on a diet, regain the weight, and then some.
I think that the stigma on fat people should be removed and simply let them live their life. I can think of worse things in this life than of being fat.

www.gurl.com is good......go to gurl.com and then go to the high left corner and go to shoutout boards.....then weight issues......then start talking!......also there is www.prevention.com.......go to prevention.com and then go to discussions and then go down and choose a category!........i hope these are good for you!....